July 10,
2005
Intro: Genesis 12:1-5- Abraham and
Sarah are the first of
five living testimonies of
God-designed marriage. I Cor.10:11
I.
The many years without children drove them
together
and drove them to the Lord.
1) Frequent mention of lack of children-
11:30, 15:2, 16:1,
18:13. Child-bearing was withheld to
develop their faith-
Heb.11:11.
How careless of so many believers to
sustain emotional
bonds! 3 times in Eph. 5 men are told to
love their wives.
II.
Both had times of doubt & confusion
concerning
God’s
help and blessing.
1) Abraham- Gen.12:13—he was
fearful & questioned
God’s
protection
2) Sarai-
Gen.16:2-she inserted her plan in the place of
God’s plan—her plan brought
arrogance to the family.
Couples need to remember that they
reap both good
and evil from their
spouses.
III.
They weathered great difficulties created by
their
own mistakes.
1) The diligence of their love got
them thru the storms.
2) Difficulties in marriage can
drive you together or
apart.
Believers with integrity will also
manage a crisis
better than those w/o
integrity.
IV.
Note that their character development is
shown by
their change in names.
Abraham- Gen.17:5
Sarah- Gen.17:15
God had to enlarge their capacity
for His plan; we try
to reduce God’s plan to our
capacity.
V.
Together they experienced God’s mercy &
power.
Gen.21:2—Abraham illustrates
justification by faith-
Rom.4:19-15